Some women have destroyed their homes by simply comparing their husbands with their friends’ husbands or their ex. Don’t compare your husband/wife unfavorably to other men/women, real or imaginary.
It is neither fair nor respectful and will only breed trouble and discontentment in your home. Stop telling your spouse you wish they are like Juliet or Clinton.
. (Psalm 19:14;Proverbs 4:23)
2. A KISS CAN LAST A DAY
. Success and respect often go hand-in-hand, so be sure to kiss your spouse off right, and don’t forget to greet each other with a kiss after you both return home.
(2 Corinthians 13:12)
3. CHERISH TOGETHERNESS
Sit close to each other, exchanging lovely glances with a smile, holding of hands with love, gentle touch,. even when neither of you is talking this moment does good to your love for each other.
4. DRESS TO PLEASE YOUR SPOUSE
some women totally care less about what they wear and how they dress after marriage or childbirth this shouldn’t be so. Take care of your appearance. Choose clothes your husband finds flattering, around the house and dress decently for all outings.
5. KEEP THE HOUSE TIDY
To the best of your abilities, try to maintain a clean and orderly home. Seek to make it a haven of rest for your entire family. Stop pilling up dirty dishes for house-flies. You can re-arrange your home settings from time to time. Make the home lively with the little you can afford. (Proverbs 31:27)
6. DON’T DISCARD YOUR SPOUSE ADVICE
Share life issues together and seek each other opinion on issues. Do not dismiss your spouse opinions lightly, especially when you’ve asked for his/her counsel in the first place. Make every effort to follow your spouse’s advice.
Voiced compliments and heartfelt praise are always welcome, but you should also make it your habit to just look at your husband in a respectful, appreciative way. Think kind thoughts toward him. He’ll be able to see the admiration in your eyes.
“A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.”
Expression of love is a key to excite your spouse.
Source: Pastor Bimbo Odukoya